If you would have asked me a couple of months ago if I believed in love on first sight I would have looked at you and said:
„I don’t know.“
If you would have asked me a couple of months ago how you know that this is The One I would have looked at you and said:
„I don’t know.“
And that’s the truth. Back then I didn’t know.
I didn’t know what true love meant.
And I’d choose you;
in a hundred lifetimes,
in a hundred worlds,
in any version of reality,
I’d find you and
I’d choose you.
And then I met him and all those concepts I had heard so much about before suddenly all started to make sense.
It felt like my heart recognized him at first sight. And though it took my head another two weeks to realize it, I knew right aways that I loved him. And this is how I knew that he is The One.
I was happy before. I enjoyed spending time with friends and I valued my alone time, which I both still very much enjoy and value.
However, now that he is part of my life, the quote by John Green suddenly made sense:
„What you do isn’t going to be nearly as interesting or important as who you do it with.“John Green
With him, everything in life seems more interesting, as you have someone to share it with.
With him, everything is new and at the same time so familiar.
He makes me so so happy.
He completely turned my world around as he makes me see it in a different light.
He believes in me, which makes my dreams even bigger and makes me believe that I can actually achieve them.
He always listens to me and I can tell him things I have never told anyone ever before and he actually wants to hear more.
He shares my hopes and dreams for the future and supports me in achieving my goals.
He is the first person I call or text when something wonderful has happened, as I can’t wait to talk to him about it and I know he’ll be as excited as I am.
He makes me laugh so hard that my tummy hurts and laughs with me when I’m making a fool of myself – which happens quite often.
He always makes me feel like I’m more than enough, he always builds me up and shows me the things that he feels make me special and beautiful.
He makes me feel save to be my true authentic self and lets me know every single day that he loves me for who I am.
He makes the colors in my world seem that much more bright and radiant since he is part of my life.
He makes being with him so incredibly easy and fun.
With him, there is no need for constant conversation, but we enjoy the quiet times as well, as all I need is him with me.
With him, I have found a new happiness. And this happiness has been a magnet for wonderful new things in my life.
It took me more than 31 years to find him and I still can’t believe how incredibly lucky I am that life brought us together.
So don’t give up hope. That person is out there.